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How to Get a Woman to Orgasm, 3 Key Tips

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Oftentimes during heterosexual sex the man will orgasm/cum. However, it can be involving to help the woman, “Get off,” when having sex. With this in mind there are three key tips that can assist in getting a woman to orgasm.

1. Focus on the Clit

A wide range of relatively, “Clean,” movies as well as porn can give-off the idea that the key to having a woman orgasm is through fast-and-hard penetrative sex. In fact, studies have shown around only 30% or less of women can orgasm from penetrative sex alone. Simply trying to, “Fuck her hard,” will accomplish very little for most women despite what the media might have you think. It isn’t the sex itself that gets a woman off, in other words, it is focus on that key body part, the clitoris AKA clit.

Scientifically speaking, the clitoris is the only body part on a human that is designed for no purpose other than pleasure. It is a clump of nerve cells that exist to help a woman feel good and enjoy sexual contact, and too many men totally ignore it! When engaging in sexual contact with a woman one way to help her achieve an orgasm is to pay the clit plenty of attention. This can mean rubbing it with your fingers, or if your partner enjoys oral sex, “Going down,” on her and licking her clitoris to assist with giving her an orgasm. It doesn’t have to ALL be about the clit, however. Instead, incorporate it into your overall sex routine. While penetrating your woman encourage her to not be shy about rubbing her clit or offer to do it yourself–the combination of penetration and clit stimulation will often help many women cum who otherwise wouldn’t orgasm from just one of the stimulation methods.

2. Don’t be Afraid to Use Toys/Videos

Oftentimes in a relationship the man and/or woman will find that the idea of using toys or watching erotic videos (be it a raunchy movie or straight-up porn) is taboo. Too often a man will worry it makes him look like less of a, “Sex God,” if toys or videos are needed and the woman will be scared it makes her look like she has a problem being unable to cum from the mans fingers/mouth/penis alone. In fact, it has been shown that incorporating toys and/or videos into sex-play can make the sex even better. Being willing to bring toys or videos into the bedroom usually actually makes both partners have a lot more fun, and a man who shows he’s comfortable with his woman using a vibrator or watching a dirty video while he’s fucking her is a man who shows his woman he considers her pleasure a focus of his. Instead of a couple struggling to get the woman to orgasm they should be eager to use toys or videos if it helps and that man’s woman will know he is a pro at getting her off with all the tools–be it his own body parts or some extra stimulation to make sure the woman cums.

3. Conversation, Conversation, and more Conversation

If something feels good, tell your partner. If something feels bad, tell your partner about that too. It sounds obvious, but too many people are afraid of hurting someone’s feelings to verbalize what they want sexually. If a man makes it clear to his female partner he is ready to listen, she will feel much more comfortable having a conversation about what she wants. A woman might be afraid her man will think it, “Weird,” if she discloses she likes a finger in her ass while being fucked, but if she is reassured the man wants to make her cum any way he can, she’ll view him as a sex-pro who is read to do whatever she needs to make her feel good. A woman who feels comfortable talking about her sexual desires is a woman who is going to cum a lot for her man.


When it comes to getting a woman to orgasm these three tips are not the only things to consider, but they are a great starting-point for a man who wants to ensure his woman cums. By focusing on the clit, not being shy about toys or videos, and above all being willing to have a conversation about what the woman likes sexually, that will go a long way to helping her have a bunch of orgasms.

3 Pussy Eating Techniques that Will Make MOST Women Cum Quick!

Lick my Pussy and Make me CumThere are many exciting things to do with your partner in bed. Most of us have our sexual and intimate fantasies concealed deep within us. These are things that turn us on in the most exhilarating way possible and make reaching an orgasm easy and fun.
Cunnilingus, or what is rather commonly known as eating out is one of the best ways to make your lady cum. Women love it and say it is a magical feeling, ‘one like nothing they have ever experienced in their whole life’. Some even say it is better than vaginal sexual intercourse itself.
As a matter of fact, cunnilingus is derived form the Latin term for vulva; cunnus and lingo; which means to lick. It is most often given many slang names including ‘tipping the velvet’, ‘lip service’, ‘carpet munching’, ‘muff-diving’ and even ‘drinking from the furry cup’.
One unfortunate thing is that most men do not know how to eat out right. Some do not even know what they are doing and some cannot even find the clitoris for a start. Being an important part of foreplay, we all have to know how to do it right, both men and women. Here are 3 tongue techniques that will make you a pro at this.

1) The Up and Down technique

Also known as the Incy Wincy Spider, the Up the spout , right down and up again is one of the best ways to get your lady moaning in pleasure. This techniques hits each and every nerve ending, but only if done right.
It is actually simple, lick downwards from the top of her clitoris all the way down to her labia and right back up again. One thing to note however is the intensity of her groans while doing this. If she sounds like she is experiencing some pain then you need to tone down on the pressure a little bit. This is because most women have different sensitivity levels to the pressure applied on their clitoris and the slightest mistake can turn them off.

2) The Left to right slide

As the name sounds, this technique basically entails licking the clit form left to right in soft, slow and sensual strokes. It is also referred to as the Cha Cha slide, just like the song ‘Cha cha slide’ by Mr C The slide man.
The Cha cha slide requires a steady rhythm as some people can get really rough in their tongue movement. Making harsh darting movements with your tongue when it comes to cunnilingus equals to bad results.

3) The Circles technique

The third is the simplest of the three techniques and also the most fundamental one. It is a sexual arsenal that everyone has to have and always has the best result. This is because it works in such a way that it covers both the up and down and left to side clitoral movements.
All it entails is moving your tongue is slow concentric circles, keeping it steady and rythmic. Make sure you start off with slight pressure and speed up if she gives you the cue to do so. Trust me, you will know if she is giving you the green light to speed up.
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Basic Pussy Eating Tips

a. Use wide strokes by flattening your tongue. Sharp tonguing definitely hurts some ladies.
b. Do not feel afraid to suck on it, some ladies really do love it, and the only way to know is by taking a chance and doing it.
c. It is advisable to let her use her fingers down there. She is without doubt more experienced at doing so and will definitely do it better.
d. Always start with a good foreplay to get her wet before partaking cunnilingus. You may want to breath warm breathe into her pussy and making her really anticipate for it. You may gently lick her thighs, slowly and teasingly moving upwards.
e. Feel free to switch between soft kisses and and bites. However, the area is very sensitive so have that in mind while doing so.
f.Use your hands and finger for extra stimulation.
g. Do not spend much time on her nipples and breasts as you should have done so while undressing her. The neck is a very sensitive organ of a ladies body and should not be neglected.
With all these said, it is only prudent if you keep practicing this more and more. This is the only way you will get better at it. You may experience some ‘hurdles’ along the way but the only way to get there is by trying again and again. Nevertheless, giving a good clit job is an extremely easy technique. So i doubt if you will have may falls along the way.

Techniques to Get a Girl Squirting Irrepressibly

How to make a girl cumWould you want to be the god of the bedroom when it comes to pleasuring your female partner, giving her the best of moments during sex? Well, you have to plan immaculately, don’t just jump in there and expect everything to work; you have to push some buttons, she will love it.

Orchestrating a powerful climax that will leave her quivering with enchantment, the splendor of the gushing force of nature straight from her womanhood, oh my! Isn’t that just paradise? The rupture of the girl squirt, dreamland many yearn to get the keys to.

Start by making the mood right, erasing all distraction and cares from her mind, let only aspects and feelings of pleasure and joy linger, everything else mightn’t work without this. Clear the special place of any clutter; create a sensual milieu that will elicit a combination of cerebral, sexual, and emotional desire right from inception. Aromatherapy, lighting, music and personal grooming come hand in hand with milieu.

Read: How to Ejaculate Like a Real Boss!

When all is set and you are in your ‘birthday suit’ (naked), find the right position for both of you, perfect for stimulating her vagina and clitoris. Have her face up, legs spread, whether flat, knees bent or the frog position, let her relax and stretch her thigh muscles. A pillow under her butt will help by slightly tilting her pelvis, trouncing her g-spot at a textbook angle.

Move on to the foreplay, whisper something, anything sweet and sexy, and against her ears let her sense the placid feel of your lungful arousing discourse. A sensual, tender and exhilarating rubdown will give you clues on her sensitive spots that will arouse her and lead to stimulation; you can ask her if she likes it.

There is nothing like waste of lube at this juncture, more just makes this escapade exciting and sexy, making it naughtier. Apply it all over, inside her vagina, copiously on the clitoris, your palm and fingers as well. From here use a combination of clitoris stimulation via a combination of oral and cardinal manipulation.

Slowly and smoothly penetrate her, palm up using your middle finger, fingertip curled and caress her vagina’s frontal wall. If she likes it and desires extra, keep on, but be careful not to over stimulate her, after a little while, one more finger would do good with other stimulation sensations, sliding deeper two or three inches into her till you reach a spongy part more or less the size of a dime, the g-spot.

A feeling of urination may hit her, tell her you wouldn’t mind a little pee, its normal and you are comfortable with it, she needs reassurance to free her mind of worry and let go. Focus on other areas of her body she hungers to get stimulated, give her vagina and clitoris equal levels of stimulation.

For better control, use your other hand to maintain stability at her pubic bone while kneeling or standing facing her as she fidgets for sexual enchantment. Gently continue g-spot grazing as you mildly apply pressure to the clitoris with your palm whilst giving your hand an up and down motion. Increase the tempo while maintaining the rhythm, don’t rush, as climax gets closer, inhalations will become sharp, squirms and moans will follow, she will get wet, fluids flowing from her own ejaculation. As the squirting begins, maintain the firm palm placement on the clitoris to keep the stimulation at a regulated state.

Tip: toys or a finger in the butt work magic for many women, make her comfortable.